Through social baptism, I can better understand why some people say, “You will meet the best friend of your life in middle school or college.” In elementary school and kindergarten, we are still too young to remember what happened, emotionally and cognitively. In terms of ability, it has not yet been able to establish the connection that can be experienced when you grow up. After rolling and working in the society, it is even more difficult to meet true friends. After all, in many cases, they have not experienced the same cultural system. In addition, various interest disputes after growing up are also one of the reasons. It is inevitable to encounter some treacherous and cunning people in life, and I often suspect that these people who make friends to take advantage of or like the knife in their backs have not experienced true friendship, or that their so-called friendship smells like copper. If you can meet good friends after you leave the society, you must cherish them. And I think there is little difference between good friends and good friends, because true friends, we don’t need to get any “benefits” from them, their existence and companionship, laughing and making trouble together, make people happy.
Since friends are an important part of life, friendship has also been studied and classified in psychology, and some of them are divided into five levels:
First, strangers. Strangers are people whom you have met in life and have not yet communicated with. They may be people you often meet at the station or on the way home, or a certain store clerk who may not have said hello or even nodded. From strangers to the next stage, the most important thing is the impression of each other. If the impression is good, it may increase the curiosity about understanding each other, and then start to communicate.
Then came the second stage, the general turn. These general acquaintances may be met in social situations, work environments, or gatherings in a common circle of friends, but they are only basic exchanges, such as exchanging contact information and names, and may also communicate at work, and many people also It may stay in the stage of generalization for a lifetime.
Those who can enter the definition of friends and have a large number of them are ordinary friends in the third stage. We will maintain our best image in front of ordinary friends. When we are in a good mood, we are willing to party with them, but if we are uneasy, we do not want to share with them.
The fourth stage is to enter the category of good friends. Good friends are very familiar with each other after a long time together, we trust each other, and are willing to give to each other and feel relaxed about each other’s existence. Birthdays or some festive days will have their presence. They will support your plan. They are also one of the first choices if you have weekend activities or vacation plans to “do something”.
Finally, the highest level of friendship, best friend. Some people may have a group of good friends, but most true friends are often only one or a few. Best friends are always with you for a lifetime. You don’t mind showing your vulnerable side in front of your best friend. A best friend has a deeper emotional connection than a good friend. He or she has witnessed the scars your life has brought you and your happy times. For each other, there is nothing special to keep.
After years of baptism, beneficial friends are usually in the third to fifth stage. Good friends are hard to find. I am glad that I have met many good people and friends over the years. My friends, I will be happy because of your existence, but we will leave each other one day. The reason is death or impermanence. Just do it and cherish it. .
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